Random Oneshots have to go - Telegraph or lower damage hard

Considering stopping playing, its just not fun most of the time.
Stop the Oneshots, lower damage ceiling in maps.

Playing Totem Heirophant with 4,5k life,20k armor, 45% block, 77% res +overcap 25%, 39% chaos res, 4 endurance charges,1550 Lifereg all without flasks and i have 101 deaths already.
I CONSTANTLY get oneshot. Like every 3-4th map. Memory Maps i die 3-6 times.

Constant Oneshots without telegraphs in maps
Constant Blackscreen Pause with Reset of Minimap
Overlapping Damage Reductions on Mobs + Consec ground -> Unfun
Mercenarys oneshotting 100->0 feels awful


HOW IS THIS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN?

Please GGG, really. You guys tell us constantly "If its not fun we fix it" but you dont. Just dont.

I cant see what kills me and i die. All the time. Its so annoying and frustrating and absolutely NOT FUN.