Can't equip abyssus after getting timeless jewel

Hi I just bought a brutal restraint timeless jewel and after I socket it in I just can't equip abyssus anymore. I still have str requirements but for some reason the helmet is just red just like i didn't have met the requirements. It's 84ilvl 7909 Asenath in duelist jewel socket.

Iron reflexes was replaced with dance with death and i didn't see that. My mistake.