PoE2 Ascendacies

Never have I ever, in the 10+ years of Path of Exile experience, have I ever hated getting my ascendacies more. Not only is the trial based off RNG access from a key, but they are diabolically difficult. My character was 10 lvls over-leveled and finally got the proper gear to have max res and decent enough life. HOWEVER, NONE OF THIS MATTERS!!!!!! I'm left to spend whatever currency I have just to buy relics that rolled good enough to actually use. This is all on Standard trade league FYI. So I have it extremely easy compared to those in HC or SSF. I cant imagine that if I have these kind of difficulties, then new players are not struggling. I highly doubt, due to the difficulty of the game, that I will EVER get any of my friends to try this game out. They probably wont even make it to the end of the campaign before giving up on this terrible title. Whoever thought getting ascendacies in this way should take some time away from developing. This is seriously the biggest downfall to the game in my opinion. Making my progression an RNG that also takes serious investment to complete, is absurd. CAN WE NOT FIND ANOTHER WAY???? something that I can GRIND for????? not RNG luck?? why were the trials in PoE1 not enough??? why do they need to be more difficult??? It's wild to me more people are not talking about it. I struggled with the same issue before dawn of the hunt, and had to buy my last ascendacy on every class. IM ONLY ON MY 3RD TRIAL AND IT'S TOO DIFFICULT. Dont even get me started on how much of a time waste these are too. If you fail, proabably just wasted 30 minutes of trial time... plus the infinite potential of not getting another Djinn to open the next attempt. GGG, you have made come to a point where I'm about to say GG and put this game aside for a good while.

the problem is a lot of bugged mechanics, allowing for service into 8 points insantly, fun challenges starting when u can either one shot the boss or have enough relics, they need to do specific challengers for ascendancies and specific to play for loot