Player getting one shot

One shot everywhere, any map, why can't these game devs make an actual enjoyable gameplay? I lose exp each time I do, am I the one Jonathan worries will climb too fast the ladder when there's people selling items for 10 divines when I drop one every 50 hours spent in the game? What are we doing here? Just reward the players for their time spent in game, isn't it difficult? Jesus f christ guys

To me every boss is a one shot.
Its all they are ..

Its either a BOOM dead.
Or the fight goes on so long
my thumb gives out after 9 min
or I just cant sustain a 10 minute fight 1 v 1.

It really is discouraging because there is no way im experimenting.
Im picking one build idea .. if it doesn't work .. done.
No Way id enjoy any of this .. i dont like a single boss fight.. .not one!
They are No Hit runs. why.. massive invulnerability phases... why
get over it , they are not that good , why are you making me notice that for 10 minutes...

Im melee im in one shot range the whole time.... a hard stun is a one shot , point blank aoe is brutal... the bosses are chaining their attacks so fast their voice lines start to cancel out .....

its just ... the same fight and the same solution ... DPS

It's NOT EVEN just bosses.
I'm more worried about getting ONE SHOT by litterally anything on the screen all over the place now in end game maps.

Things just blow up or appear out of nowhere and INSTA kill you all over the place.

This is coming from someone who played POE2 over 700 hours.
I have capped res but I feel like something in the numbers is broken as I might as well just not even bother if everything I die to is a one shot.

I think something also in the numbers is messed up with evasion also for the end game.

I've been getting killed so much and it's entirely unavoidable.
If I can't see the monsters I can't avoid them when they are just endlessly bombing you with one shots off screen all the time now, more than every.
Especially Vaal Factory, it's the absolute WORST.
I get it you guys at GGG really enjoy your art style and mood but if I can't see anything and you have 500 enemies swarming me and the ground is covered in stuff and some blow up plays underneath that stuff, how can I even know to avoid it.

The player has NOT reliable or any crowd control or defense for how aggressive and dense these monsters are now, they are VERY VERY CLEARLY doing way more dmg than ever.

Like what even is this, this happens all the time. Where is the MEANINGFUL COMBAT in this? It's just utter nonsense.
1 Frame insta kills that give me no chance to respond to because I don't even see anything. All over the place.
https://streamable.com/oq3dz6

I'm giving this game till the end of the week to get fixed and then I'm done with it for good.