PoE 2 Chain Disconnects EU

I have talked about this on the forum before, but I am reaching a point when I just can't do this anymore so I will try whatever...

"Unexpected disconnection occured" getting kicked back to the login screen is the issue.

When it gets bad, it is literally every loading screen, I am not exaggerating this, it is that bad. I get frequent infinite loading screens as well. Then I can't log back in for sometimes up to an hour, same error over and over again. If I play on standalone I can't even start the game up at these times because it throws the unable to connect to patching server error. On the steam version it is just the disconnections. This whole thing makes the game near unplayable. Constantly losing maps and temple runs wasting an insane amount of time and in game resources as well.

I have red a lot of other people complaining about this issue going back years even, which doesn't exactly make me hopeful about any solution to it. It seems like this issue existed for a long time, in Poe 1 as well and now that I think about it in my brief Poe 1 history I did have some diconnects there too years ago. Some people got it worse than others and it seems like it doesn't even get looked at by GGG. It also seems like the majority of the complaints are from Europe which is yet another strong point towards the issue being on the servers side. I have had some disconnects in my 800 hours playing the 0.1 version too, it was never this bad though.

The worst of it lines up with the peak hours in my region. 18:00-22:00 almost every day, it is just not playable. This has been happening to me for like a month now and it seems to only get worse as player numbers drop more and more which is just strange. I started this league about 2 weeks after the launch and my first week or two were fine. Then I started to get disconnected here and there, then it got progressively worse and worse. I get a random day or two when there are no issues at all then it starts happening again even worse than before. It also mostly only happens at daytime, if I play late night all of a sudden its vastly better.

I only have these connection issues in this game. Everything else is fine. I have a gigabit internet, using it wired on my PC, never had any issues with it until I started playing this game. I have reinstalled the game, I have verified integrity of files on steam, I installed a separate standalone version as well. Same thing.
I have tried runnin speedtests and a bunch of other things while I am getting chain disconnected in Poe, and I can only confirm that this is only in this game. Another strong idication that this is not an issue with my PC, router or ISP. I did a bunch of troubleshooting on my connection as well. Restarted and reset and reconfigured my router multiple times. Switched DNS multiple times, made sure the firewall settings allow the game to go through. Found no issues anywhere, nothing I could do helped either.

This is on GGG's end or rather their server provider in Europe. I have 30ish ping to all EU gateways, which one I select doesn't really seem to matter much when it comes to this issue. I have been on Milan for a while because some of the others get massive lag spikes as well on top of the disconnects.

I am starting to regret spending money on this game. I love the game itself but this issue is just completely destroying the whole experience. The only reason I am still here is bacuse I love the game that much, this is not going to last long as I am really staring to get fed up with this nonsense...